The Colors You Adore Chapter 81

If it were Jasper Zhang himself, he would not do this. He was afraid of owing Mira Su and wanted to give her everything he had, because it was Mira Su that he loved her and would only plan for her. He remembered the word "selflessness" that he had said clearly, and only then did he understand its importance. If Uncle Kong is too good at calculating, he will be seen through by Mira Su, who is good at calculating costs. Uncle Kong's loss at the hands of Mira Su is not an injustice.

"Mom, you understand correctly." Mira Su said: "As for the cost of the woman. Let's put it this way, emotional value is also value. Let's take Uncle Kong as an example. The emotional value that mother can provide to Uncle Kong is, for Uncle Kong, , is a scarce item that he doesn’t have himself. If he wants to get it from his mother, he has to give everything he has in exchange for it. But what he is willing to sign is just a blank check, which is equivalent to a waste of money, while the woman’s sunk cost is real. In the whole life, decades of time are also costs, and the time is converted into shares. When the shares are split and liquidated, the woman will not get a penny. This investment is a complete loss. grandmother."

Seeing that Shen Fangqi still didn't quite understand, Ming Ming added: "Let's put it this way, think of a traditional marriage as a joint venture between a man and a woman. The man uses all his assets in the previous thirty years to invest in the shares, which of course includes his parents' shareholding. The woman also uses all her assets in the past thirty years to invest in the shares. In addition to property, which is embodied in dowry, there are also knowledge, education, character, household management ability, reproductive function, in addition to the physical and emotional strength of the next fifty years. To pay, on the surface it looks like the man has spent real money, and the woman is the beneficiary. In fact, all the investment is time costs, but one party has paid in advance in money, and the other party has delayed the payment. It is said that if you put the assets of the first thirty years and the efforts of the next fifty years on the same scale, you can tell at a glance which one is heavier and which one is lighter. "

Shen Fangqi suddenly understood and said now I understand. Ming Ming said: "Of course the man also contributed in the next fifty years, but usually the contribution was limited. The most intuitive example is grandma. What she got from marriage was a lifetime of humiliation. When the Yan family hired people, they also said that there were Land has property, houses and food, but in fact, land and property have nothing to do with grandma. What grandpa provides, that is, what grandma gets in this company, is not as good as the employees, including three meals a day. You get very little for a night's sleep, but you really sacrifice your life, dignity, children, and emotions."

"Lao Kong has a house and property, and it has nothing to do with me." Mom understood and asked, "Then what should I do?"